I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why'd you even return here? I always wonder. A man can live like a king elsewhere his money stretch 5x further. Women treat him incredibly. His hormones and feelings peaked. Why would someone return here?I once ejaculated 8 times in a 24-hour period in the Amsterdam Red Light district ($25 a pop).
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think he was sharing that there is a way to do it. He described a role that exists in the situations he's part of. He's not the only guy in those situations that can do it.
Yeah, by becoming a junkie.
A party guy is a junkie or the females in that space.?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I learned a long time ago to lay off the booze when desiring peak performance.
I never was that sex-deprived so 3 times a day was probably my max.
I just wait until after sex to drink, and if it's late, I just don't drink that day. Something else I like to do is take, before sex, some Terazosin, which is a bit like Viagra.
Probably both.
Well. It's all part of the "game". I bet all our member does is smoke weed and drink.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I don't think so, and even if others do that, it doesn't seem to be at a junkie-level like the OP but they have other purposes in life beyond wasting themselves. Even getting laid too much starts getting sick if that's all you are doing. Everything is all about balance. Most posters on here sound intelligent and almost all of them don't seem to agree with the tone of this thread.
Im not gonna hate him because he's plugged into that world. Those same "junkie" females are "hot" women to millions of simps who will break their wallet, Give their self respect, mess up their lives to try to please. It's the same as the "hot girls" men on this site cry about and he has a seat or perhaps a table at "the top of the game".
There is no bragging rights to plugging into that world. Being at the right place and time and shooting fish in a barrel is not game. It is just hedonism. Game at least implies some sort of challenge, not an orgy.
Every man that wants a "hot girl" that's the "right" position to be in.
But not that lifestyle. I think you are confusing being a stong masculine man with a man hor with no morals. There is just no class here.
Other posters such a @zinc4 who I will admit to evvying their posts have more class than this even if they too are shooting fish in the barrel. You dont see me get riled up there. I just do not feel any sense of envy here because there is simply no class here and I just feel it needs to be said. That is all.mrgoodstuff said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
And i was just saying to run 7.x down the quarter in a gas stock body car you'll need a power adder. Hot girls are what they are. The same ones who are so selfish or will mess a mans life up with the quickness are vain, concerned with clout and popularity. Theres a position to sit in to deal with those.
The story reads as if it is written by someone who is trying to put something really good together but messes up details like this because he has never experienced them...
Umm...if I am not mistaken Murk lives in London which is like double the size of LA
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.