"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I had no idea my lifestyle was this hard to believe, but im definitely flattered by it . But I am tame compared to most of the guys i know, im talking about people who party 5-6x a week and dont work yet always seem to have money to spend. I still keep it balanced since i have a day job and side business, but i do go hard on weekends. And in cities like L.A. where theres a large concentration of ppl with lots of free time and money this type of hedonistic lifestyle is going to thrive. Some of you seem to have a small town mentality so this stuff must seem foriegn to you.
Your lifestyle is not hard to believe. It's just that it's not my cup of tea and sounds too hedonistic for my tastes. I confused your posts with the other people who party 5 - 6 x a week and don't work. I'm not sure why, but that was the impression I had from your posts. What type of day-job do you do? What is your side business? Do you live at home, or on your own?

In relationship to this thread, I'd be volcel because I wouldn't pay that price of admission to get laid, and in relationship @mrgoodstuff, it would double-confirm I'm really volcel because I wouldn't want to drink or do any drugs and would feel any "influence" would impair the purity of any experience or intimacy with a woman. I can't feel like I'm just going through motions of something but I'm not 100% there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your lifestyle is not hard to believe. It's just that it's not my cup of tea and sounds too hedonistic for my tastes. I confused your posts with the other people who party 5 - 6 x a week and don't work. I'm not sure why, but that was the impression I had from your posts. What type of day-job do you do? What is your side business? Do you live at home, or on your own?

In relationship to this thread, I'd be volcel because I wouldn't pay that price of admission to get laid, and in relationship @mrgoodstuff, it would double-confirm I'm really volcel because I wouldn't want to drink or do any drugs and would feel any "influence" would impair the purity of any experience or intimacy with a woman. I can't feel like I'm just going through motions of something but I'm not 100% there.
Im in finance, work 40-50hrs per week and make 6 figs. I also have a real estate business(rental properties) that im actively working to expand.
I can easily afford to live alone but i have a roomate just to have more spending money.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Im in finance, work 40-50hrs per week and make 6 figs. I also have a real estate business(rental properties) that im actively working to expand.
I can easily afford to live alone but i have a roomate just to have more spending money.
Does your roommate know about your lifestyle? Doesn't this mean you have no privacy to bring women back to your apartment? Does your roommate have a gf or bring women home?
 

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Does your roommate know about your lifestyle? Doesn't this mean you have no privacy to bring women back to your apartment? Does your roommate have a gf or bring women home?
He hears me talking about partying on the phone and sees me hungover so i assume he does. Privacy isnt an issue, hes usually holed up in his room especially when i bring girls over and in the 2yrs ive lived with him hes never brought anyone home. Hes slightly fat and a bit below avg looking so he aint gonna be pimpin it anytime soon.
 

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He hears me talking about partying on the phone and sees me hungover so i assume he does. Privacy isnt an issue, hes usually holed up in his room especially when i bring girls over and in the 2yrs ive lived with him hes never brought anyone home. Hes slightly fat and a bit below avg looking so he aint gonna be pimpin it anytime soon.
Looks like he needs a leg up. Why dont you help him out?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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He does not look white though.
His ancestors probably came from the Middle East and looked brown..... and their ancestors came from Africa and probably looked Black.....

He's the missing link between the ancient brown folks from the Middle East and the modern Chads from Europe....
 

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Wonder if this roommate will be the next Eliott Roger and target the OP first. This set up does not look good. Just make sure he does not have guns around or anything like that.
 

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Maaaan.....i woke up feeling disgusted with women after a long weekend of partying. I smashed one girl raw but I'll save you the details. Alex smashed 2 girls and lastnight he hits me up a 4am saying hes partying with 2 chicks i think he had a 3some but havent talked to him yet. This one chick i liked got drunk af and was showing me snaps of some dude jerking off and said she uses a strapon with him. She said it like it was normal, i was fvcking disgusted with her. Then this other guy whos only like 20yrs old shows me pics of legit orgies hes had and pics of some milf that hes living with and she pays all his bills, and me thinking of all the girls i fvck raw same night without knowing their names even. All this just started to disgust me. Plus need to layoff the yayo, everyone in this fvcking city does it, its hard to avoid even when i say no they pressure you. Like mfer i got a life, Ive been partying for 4 days straight i need a break. Im up for a promotion at work and had a lackluster meeting with my boss cuz ive been partying for 4 days straight and i still feel braindead. All these sex crazed girls and guys drinking and doing drugs every fvcking day got to me, and im deep in this chit now, even if its just on wkends it takes its toll. Need a break from all this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maaaan.....i woke up feeling disgusted with women after a long weekend of partying. I smashed one girl raw but I'll save you the details. Alex smashed 2 girls and lastnight he hits me up a 4am saying hes partying with 2 chicks i think he had a 3some but havent talked to him yet. This one chick i liked got drunk af and was showing me snaps of some dude jerking off and said she uses a strapon with him. She said it like it was normal, i was fvcking disgusted with her. Then this other guy whos only like 20yrs old shows me pics of legit orgies hes had and pics of some milf that hes living with and she pays all his bills, and me thinking of all the girls i fvck raw same night without knowing their names even. All this just started to disgust me. Plus need to layoff the yayo, everyone in this fvcking city does it, its hard to avoid even when i say no they pressure you. Like mfer i got a life, Ive been partying for 4 days straight i need a break. Im up for a promotion at work and had a lackluster meeting with my boss cuz ive been partying for 4 days straight and i still feel braindead. All these sex crazed girls and guys drinking and doing drugs every fvcking day got to me, and im deep in this chit now, even if its just on wkends it takes its toll. Need a break from all this.
3 wks break and in the gym instead. Drink allot of water to flush your system.
 

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I had a lot of girls compliment my looks too, one said i looked like christiano ronaldo, another said i look like an musician or actor, one said i was intimidating due to my looks. But It doesnt even mean nothing no more, just another easy lay from some sex crazed skank. Who gives a chit.
 

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Then this other guy whos only like 20yrs old shows me pics of legit orgies hes had and pics of some milf that hes living with and she pays all his bills,
I thought people on here would think this guy is DJ because he's getting what he wants out of women. But you are disgusted. It means you have a soul. There is hope for you.
 

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I thought people on here would think this guy is DJ because he's getting what he wants out of women. But you are disgusted. It means you have a soul. There is hope for you.
We all have souls, no matter how much some of us are trying to hide it.
And when you hide it, there's a big chance of ending up miserable, disgusted, depressed, hurt.
Same chance when you have your soul on display. But you're doing it for the right purpose.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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