"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wearing A Hat

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I have decided I want to start wearing a hat not a baseball cap but a nice stylish hat that would go well with anything I wear jeans you name it.

My main attire is a sport coat and at times I might wear jeans or dress pants with a dress shirt with tie or bow tie either way I want to top it off with a nice hat as it is a manly statement.

So far I am drawn to the flat hat the types you see limo drivers wear and I have seen Brad Pitt sport one as well.

Anyone here into hat wearing and if so which kind do you sport?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Marvin Gaye

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
Are you talking about something like this?

A golf cap almost?

That looks pretty fresh in my opinion.

But then some people also wear stuff like this

Although usually they end up looking weird. Hopefully you live somewhere cold!
 

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Hats are pretty freakin' gay dude. Especially fedoras. Keep them off your head and get a cool haircut instead.
 

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I'm not here to criticize anyone's fashion taste, but I don't recommend hats for guys. I know Fedoras in a club are very try-hard. It just screams PUA lol.

I'm not familiar with the type of hat you are describing. But I would agree with Vice that you should focus on having a cool haircut (or shaved/buzzed if that works for you) rather than a hat.
 
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Hats are fine, as long as you're just mixing them in - don't make a point of always wearing one, though. If you shave your head, I'd recommend not wearing a hat at all. Rock the dome...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Marvin, that's the hat but today it's 64 degrees where I live so guess it wouldn't work unless it colder.

To all the other posters thanks for the suggestions I appreciate them.

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