"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wearing A Hat

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I have decided I want to start wearing a hat not a baseball cap but a nice stylish hat that would go well with anything I wear jeans you name it.

My main attire is a sport coat and at times I might wear jeans or dress pants with a dress shirt with tie or bow tie either way I want to top it off with a nice hat as it is a manly statement.

So far I am drawn to the flat hat the types you see limo drivers wear and I have seen Brad Pitt sport one as well.

Anyone here into hat wearing and if so which kind do you sport?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Marvin Gaye

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
Are you talking about something like this?

A golf cap almost?

That looks pretty fresh in my opinion.

But then some people also wear stuff like this

Although usually they end up looking weird. Hopefully you live somewhere cold!
 

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Hats are pretty freakin' gay dude. Especially fedoras. Keep them off your head and get a cool haircut instead.
 

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I'm not here to criticize anyone's fashion taste, but I don't recommend hats for guys. I know Fedoras in a club are very try-hard. It just screams PUA lol.

I'm not familiar with the type of hat you are describing. But I would agree with Vice that you should focus on having a cool haircut (or shaved/buzzed if that works for you) rather than a hat.
 
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Hats are fine, as long as you're just mixing them in - don't make a point of always wearing one, though. If you shave your head, I'd recommend not wearing a hat at all. Rock the dome...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Marvin, that's the hat but today it's 64 degrees where I live so guess it wouldn't work unless it colder.

To all the other posters thanks for the suggestions I appreciate them.

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