"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have decided I want to start wearing a hat not a baseball cap but a nice stylish hat that would go well with anything I wear jeans you name it.

My main attire is a sport coat and at times I might wear jeans or dress pants with a dress shirt with tie or bow tie either way I want to top it off with a nice hat as it is a manly statement.

So far I am drawn to the flat hat the types you see limo drivers wear and I have seen Brad Pitt sport one as well.

Anyone here into hat wearing and if so which kind do you sport?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
Are you talking about something like this?

A golf cap almost?

That looks pretty fresh in my opinion.

But then some people also wear stuff like this

Although usually they end up looking weird. Hopefully you live somewhere cold!
 
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Hats are pretty freakin' gay dude. Especially fedoras. Keep them off your head and get a cool haircut instead.
 
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I'm not here to criticize anyone's fashion taste, but I don't recommend hats for guys. I know Fedoras in a club are very try-hard. It just screams PUA lol.

I'm not familiar with the type of hat you are describing. But I would agree with Vice that you should focus on having a cool haircut (or shaved/buzzed if that works for you) rather than a hat.
 
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Hats are fine, as long as you're just mixing them in - don't make a point of always wearing one, though. If you shave your head, I'd recommend not wearing a hat at all. Rock the dome...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Marvin, that's the hat but today it's 64 degrees where I live so guess it wouldn't work unless it colder.

To all the other posters thanks for the suggestions I appreciate them.

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