"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wearing A Hat

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I have decided I want to start wearing a hat not a baseball cap but a nice stylish hat that would go well with anything I wear jeans you name it.

My main attire is a sport coat and at times I might wear jeans or dress pants with a dress shirt with tie or bow tie either way I want to top it off with a nice hat as it is a manly statement.

So far I am drawn to the flat hat the types you see limo drivers wear and I have seen Brad Pitt sport one as well.

Anyone here into hat wearing and if so which kind do you sport?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
Are you talking about something like this?

A golf cap almost?

That looks pretty fresh in my opinion.

But then some people also wear stuff like this

Although usually they end up looking weird. Hopefully you live somewhere cold!
 
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Hats are pretty freakin' gay dude. Especially fedoras. Keep them off your head and get a cool haircut instead.
 
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I'm not here to criticize anyone's fashion taste, but I don't recommend hats for guys. I know Fedoras in a club are very try-hard. It just screams PUA lol.

I'm not familiar with the type of hat you are describing. But I would agree with Vice that you should focus on having a cool haircut (or shaved/buzzed if that works for you) rather than a hat.
 
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Hats are fine, as long as you're just mixing them in - don't make a point of always wearing one, though. If you shave your head, I'd recommend not wearing a hat at all. Rock the dome...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Marvin, that's the hat but today it's 64 degrees where I live so guess it wouldn't work unless it colder.

To all the other posters thanks for the suggestions I appreciate them.

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