"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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we took the LTR talk away :)

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Big Eee Zee

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i ****ing agree! We need a section for ltrs. where we can discuss how to use dj techniques to keep the spark in a relationship, or how a PUA would tone down his seduction and modify his behavior to be congruent with that of a relationship.


Comeon, we need an LTR forum. It would help with all the whiny guys saying "I lost my g/f how do i get her back?". I'd deal with them in our section, just to have it. Hell, if no-one else wants to I'll mod it. I think its a capital idea
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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B-Lemond

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
i ****ing agree! We need a section for ltrs. where we can discuss how to use dj techniques to keep the spark in a relationship, or how a PUA would tone down his seduction and modify his behavior to be congruent with that of a relationship.


Comeon, we need an LTR forum. It would help with all the whiny guys saying "I lost my g/f how do i get her back?". I'd deal with them in our section, just to have it. Hell, if no-one else wants to I'll mod it. I think its a capital idea
Standing Ovation!


O and:
Mods......listen to this guy! ~ (LTR forum)
 

frivolousz21

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well most of the LTR main guys here left somewhere else...

thats why you dont see the talk here..

because to many people with no expierence try giving advice.

there are some good ones left here though
 

MindOverMatter

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haha, you all on wyldfire's forums? good luck with that man. i'll miss the arguments
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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