"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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we took the LTR talk away :)

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Big Eee Zee

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i ****ing agree! We need a section for ltrs. where we can discuss how to use dj techniques to keep the spark in a relationship, or how a PUA would tone down his seduction and modify his behavior to be congruent with that of a relationship.


Comeon, we need an LTR forum. It would help with all the whiny guys saying "I lost my g/f how do i get her back?". I'd deal with them in our section, just to have it. Hell, if no-one else wants to I'll mod it. I think its a capital idea
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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B-Lemond

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
i ****ing agree! We need a section for ltrs. where we can discuss how to use dj techniques to keep the spark in a relationship, or how a PUA would tone down his seduction and modify his behavior to be congruent with that of a relationship.


Comeon, we need an LTR forum. It would help with all the whiny guys saying "I lost my g/f how do i get her back?". I'd deal with them in our section, just to have it. Hell, if no-one else wants to I'll mod it. I think its a capital idea
Standing Ovation!


O and:
Mods......listen to this guy! ~ (LTR forum)
 

frivolousz21

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well most of the LTR main guys here left somewhere else...

thats why you dont see the talk here..

because to many people with no expierence try giving advice.

there are some good ones left here though
 

MindOverMatter

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haha, you all on wyldfire's forums? good luck with that man. i'll miss the arguments
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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