frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
are you guys happier now ???
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
we took the LTR talk away :)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
NO, and I think only a handful of people would agree with me. Nonetheless, I vote for a LTR forum!
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
clean out your private messages
MacAvoy
Banned
What do you mean you took it away? Are we not allowed to ask LTR questions anymore?
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
i ****ing agree! We need a section for ltrs. where we can discuss how to use dj techniques to keep the spark in a relationship, or how a PUA would tone down his seduction and modify his behavior to be congruent with that of a relationship.
Comeon, we need an LTR forum. It would help with all the whiny guys saying "I lost my g/f how do i get her back?". I'd deal with them in our section, just to have it. Hell, if no-one else wants to I'll mod it. I think its a capital idea
Comeon, we need an LTR forum. It would help with all the whiny guys saying "I lost my g/f how do i get her back?". I'd deal with them in our section, just to have it. Hell, if no-one else wants to I'll mod it. I think its a capital idea
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Standing Ovation!
O and:
Mods......listen to this guy! ~ (LTR forum)
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
well most of the LTR main guys here left somewhere else...
thats why you dont see the talk here..
because to many people with no expierence try giving advice.
there are some good ones left here though
thats why you dont see the talk here..
because to many people with no expierence try giving advice.
there are some good ones left here though
MindOverMatter
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haha, you all on wyldfire's forums? good luck with that man. i'll miss the arguments
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
nah its something diff...
but of course she is there
but of course she is there
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
whats with all teh 19 yr olds from australia