frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
are you guys happier now ???
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
we took the LTR talk away :)
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
NO, and I think only a handful of people would agree with me. Nonetheless, I vote for a LTR forum!
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
clean out your private messages
MacAvoy
Banned
What do you mean you took it away? Are we not allowed to ask LTR questions anymore?
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
i ****ing agree! We need a section for ltrs. where we can discuss how to use dj techniques to keep the spark in a relationship, or how a PUA would tone down his seduction and modify his behavior to be congruent with that of a relationship.
Comeon, we need an LTR forum. It would help with all the whiny guys saying "I lost my g/f how do i get her back?". I'd deal with them in our section, just to have it. Hell, if no-one else wants to I'll mod it. I think its a capital idea
Comeon, we need an LTR forum. It would help with all the whiny guys saying "I lost my g/f how do i get her back?". I'd deal with them in our section, just to have it. Hell, if no-one else wants to I'll mod it. I think its a capital idea
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Standing Ovation!
O and:
Mods......listen to this guy! ~ (LTR forum)
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
well most of the LTR main guys here left somewhere else...
thats why you dont see the talk here..
because to many people with no expierence try giving advice.
there are some good ones left here though
thats why you dont see the talk here..
because to many people with no expierence try giving advice.
there are some good ones left here though
MindOverMatter
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haha, you all on wyldfire's forums? good luck with that man. i'll miss the arguments
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
nah its something diff...
but of course she is there
but of course she is there
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
whats with all teh 19 yr olds from australia