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Besides ignoring her? I was thinking get another couple of girls but I want to just rub it in her face almost. Or would a real DJ not do this... Haha.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ways to let a girl know you are "over it" without actually telling her?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lets_do_this
Don Juan
elaborate more on the situation. i dont exactly see what you are asking.
lets_do_this
Don Juan
this is exactly how i felt about this thread in my above post. glad someone feels the same way.
Huh?
You want to show her that you're over her but you wanna rub it in her face?
Who the hell broke the relationship off in the first place? If it's her, then you're clearly not over her. If it's you, then you're just mean.
You want to show her that you're over her but you wanna rub it in her face?
Who the hell broke the relationship off in the first place? If it's her, then you're clearly not over her. If it's you, then you're just mean.
lets_do_this
Don Juan
1 thing i can say. If she was the one who dumped you (she probably did), then your actions mean you still care.
Ignoring would be the only solution.
By your post, you wanna convince yourself ur over her. Ur not over her... Not yet.
Ignoring would be the only solution.
By your post, you wanna convince yourself ur over her. Ur not over her... Not yet.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Listen:
There was no relationship. A friend of this girl told me that another guy was trying to get with her. She keeps blowing me off but tells ANOTHER friend that she liked me? I don't get her. So i'm over it. Officially. Don't trip anymore.
There was no relationship. A friend of this girl told me that another guy was trying to get with her. She keeps blowing me off but tells ANOTHER friend that she liked me? I don't get her. So i'm over it. Officially. Don't trip anymore.
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And are you guys being serious? We weren't "EXCLUSIVE". Open your eyes.
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And I'm sure you all have the backstory on this girl from the previous thread I made and that was why you responded with those types of comments. Can we agree?
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You can't show her you don't care without not actually caring. If you don't care, then your natural actions should indicate so.
However, since you seem to be so eager to show her that you don't care, then you probably still do care.
However, since you seem to be so eager to show her that you don't care, then you probably still do care.
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I'll be honest. I want her.. eventually I'll get her. I just want to make her jealous right now so she'll sweat and want it. Tips?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Okay. I never did read your previous thread. Or I might have not remembered it.
However, the point of the advice that should be given to you is that rubbing things in a person's face is always pointless. It serves no purpose other than for self-gratification of an egotistical mentality.
Those that understand the uselessness of rubbing things in a person's face are disgusted by people thinking of doing it.
Granted, the advice should've been explained a little clearer, but it seems that a lot of us here have lost quite a bit of patience with these kinds of threads.
I hope you understand the point here.
However, the point of the advice that should be given to you is that rubbing things in a person's face is always pointless. It serves no purpose other than for self-gratification of an egotistical mentality.
Those that understand the uselessness of rubbing things in a person's face are disgusted by people thinking of doing it.
Granted, the advice should've been explained a little clearer, but it seems that a lot of us here have lost quite a bit of patience with these kinds of threads.
I hope you understand the point here.
In your case, I would just move on.
In the case that you actually had a relationship and wanted to dump her say something like this.
"I think we should take a break from each other. "
then move her to the bottom of your list and go out on a few more dates.
I would also add, "when I put my arms around you I just don't feel like I'm your man. I could be wrong, but something isn't right."
That will put the onus on her to make you feel like her man.
If she doesn't then you continue with your break.
In the case that you actually had a relationship and wanted to dump her say something like this.
"I think we should take a break from each other. "
then move her to the bottom of your list and go out on a few more dates.
I would also add, "when I put my arms around you I just don't feel like I'm your man. I could be wrong, but something isn't right."
That will put the onus on her to make you feel like her man.
If she doesn't then you continue with your break.
Start seeing someone else. Whenever I get a girlfriend I get a load of women fighting for my attention and girls I've previously been involved with come crawling back.
It's a strange phenomenon, but becoming unavailable is like a powerful aphrodisiac.
DonJuanMonk
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what the fuk do you want moron?
If you try to put on an act, she'll pick up on it. Just ignore her and genuinely avoid her. Women are masters when it comes to subtle attention-getting, so none of the stunts you pull will be undetected or new to her.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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quoted for truth. thanks. this is what i was looking for.
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Word man thanks.