mahon83050
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What do you guys say to yourself when you start feeling AFC or have AFC thoughts. Lately, I just yell at myself...."You are thinking AFC again, snap out of it." You are the great catch."
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ways to break AFC thinking?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Go into the Dj bible and print out "Kill that desperation" by pook and "Death of an AFC" by wildthang. . Whenever you feel a bout of inner AFC coming on all you have to do is read.
TDK4
Don Juan
When I start to get those feelings I ignore what my head is telling me and I listen to my gut, the truth. I realize that if i give into those cowardly feelings then ill just end up lonely like I have so many times in the past.
Page
Master Don Juan
I don't have AFC thoughts anymore b/c I have utterly destroyed that part of my mentality. I am a DJ through and through, and there is no going back.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
thecraftylefty
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It's hard at first to break your AFC tendancies. Really hard. But with more time and more experience those thoughts hardly ever occur. You must have the mindset that you will do whatever it takes to get past your self-limiting beliefs and be in control of what you want. You MUST KNOW you can do it, and YOU WILL do it. If you have the drive anything is possible.
Here's small quote my cross country coach used to tell our team: the body achieves what the mind believes.
"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."
thecraftylefty
Here's small quote my cross country coach used to tell our team: the body achieves what the mind believes.
"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."
thecraftylefty
terminator911
Master Don Juan
Some guy (don't remember who it was) posted this a long time ago and it went something like this... When he was feeding his head with AFC thoughts about approaching girls or anything related to it he would use the 3 second rule and said these words in his head: "FU*CK IT, LET'S GET IT OVER WITH" and did his thing. Works wonders.
hitop
Senior Don Juan
Bro, just get a grip of yourself and Man Up. 'Nuff said.
Unbridled_1
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Mahon's post was classic...