mahon83050
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What do you guys say to yourself when you start feeling AFC or have AFC thoughts. Lately, I just yell at myself...."You are thinking AFC again, snap out of it." You are the great catch."
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Ways to break AFC thinking?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Go into the Dj bible and print out "Kill that desperation" by pook and "Death of an AFC" by wildthang. . Whenever you feel a bout of inner AFC coming on all you have to do is read.
TDK4
Don Juan
When I start to get those feelings I ignore what my head is telling me and I listen to my gut, the truth. I realize that if i give into those cowardly feelings then ill just end up lonely like I have so many times in the past.
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Master Don Juan
I don't have AFC thoughts anymore b/c I have utterly destroyed that part of my mentality. I am a DJ through and through, and there is no going back.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
thecraftylefty
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It's hard at first to break your AFC tendancies. Really hard. But with more time and more experience those thoughts hardly ever occur. You must have the mindset that you will do whatever it takes to get past your self-limiting beliefs and be in control of what you want. You MUST KNOW you can do it, and YOU WILL do it. If you have the drive anything is possible.
Here's small quote my cross country coach used to tell our team: the body achieves what the mind believes.
"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."
thecraftylefty
Here's small quote my cross country coach used to tell our team: the body achieves what the mind believes.
"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."
thecraftylefty
terminator911
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Some guy (don't remember who it was) posted this a long time ago and it went something like this... When he was feeding his head with AFC thoughts about approaching girls or anything related to it he would use the 3 second rule and said these words in his head: "FU*CK IT, LET'S GET IT OVER WITH" and did his thing. Works wonders.
hitop
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Bro, just get a grip of yourself and Man Up. 'Nuff said.
Unbridled_1
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Mahon's post was classic...