"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sbgm

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Just want to get this out.

Got invited to a girl last saturday night. I was a bit drunk (35-40cl vodka I usually drink about 20cl to get tipsy) and this girl was sober. So we talked and watched a movie, and made out. We watched a movie and I couldn't follow it, I was so drunk I didn't understand a bit of it - probably also fell asleep.

Well, everything is fine, I leave at 8 in the morning because I was feeling so hungover, and the day after i texted her if she wanted to grab some coffee.

She texts me back "I'm not interesting in seeing you anymore".

Now two days after, she's writing this texts on her facebook wall with her friend telling her in marvelous details how awful I was and that she will never make out again.

WTF IS WRONG WITH THIS SH!T??

Guess I've learned something, there's a reason for not kissing on the first - or second date and never go home to a girl drunk when she's sober.

Peace
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sounds like she wasn't impressed with your drinking, or at least you're getting overly drunk. Shows you can't control yourself.

Also, generally not a good idea to fall asleep on a girl at her house on a first date, unless you've had sex..
 

sbgm

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Haha, yep I know :p But shouldn't the text msg be enough? Why the facebook wall harassment?
 

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sbgm said:
So we talked and watched a movie, and made out. We watched a movie and I couldn't follow it, I was so drunk I didn't understand a bit of it - probably also fell asleep.
Are you sure that's all that happened? Maybe you tried to get a little too "touchy feely" with her but you don't remember... ;)

Also, was this an already established acquaintance/friend? Or did you "friend" her first on Facebook. I have an ironclad rule when it comes to Facebook and Plates: Never friend your plates on Facebook.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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