"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sbgm

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Just want to get this out.

Got invited to a girl last saturday night. I was a bit drunk (35-40cl vodka I usually drink about 20cl to get tipsy) and this girl was sober. So we talked and watched a movie, and made out. We watched a movie and I couldn't follow it, I was so drunk I didn't understand a bit of it - probably also fell asleep.

Well, everything is fine, I leave at 8 in the morning because I was feeling so hungover, and the day after i texted her if she wanted to grab some coffee.

She texts me back "I'm not interesting in seeing you anymore".

Now two days after, she's writing this texts on her facebook wall with her friend telling her in marvelous details how awful I was and that she will never make out again.

WTF IS WRONG WITH THIS SH!T??

Guess I've learned something, there's a reason for not kissing on the first - or second date and never go home to a girl drunk when she's sober.

Peace
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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zekko

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Sounds like she wasn't impressed with your drinking, or at least you're getting overly drunk. Shows you can't control yourself.

Also, generally not a good idea to fall asleep on a girl at her house on a first date, unless you've had sex..
 

sbgm

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Haha, yep I know :p But shouldn't the text msg be enough? Why the facebook wall harassment?
 

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sbgm said:
So we talked and watched a movie, and made out. We watched a movie and I couldn't follow it, I was so drunk I didn't understand a bit of it - probably also fell asleep.
Are you sure that's all that happened? Maybe you tried to get a little too "touchy feely" with her but you don't remember... ;)

Also, was this an already established acquaintance/friend? Or did you "friend" her first on Facebook. I have an ironclad rule when it comes to Facebook and Plates: Never friend your plates on Facebook.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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