"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sbgm

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Just want to get this out.

Got invited to a girl last saturday night. I was a bit drunk (35-40cl vodka I usually drink about 20cl to get tipsy) and this girl was sober. So we talked and watched a movie, and made out. We watched a movie and I couldn't follow it, I was so drunk I didn't understand a bit of it - probably also fell asleep.

Well, everything is fine, I leave at 8 in the morning because I was feeling so hungover, and the day after i texted her if she wanted to grab some coffee.

She texts me back "I'm not interesting in seeing you anymore".

Now two days after, she's writing this texts on her facebook wall with her friend telling her in marvelous details how awful I was and that she will never make out again.

WTF IS WRONG WITH THIS SH!T??

Guess I've learned something, there's a reason for not kissing on the first - or second date and never go home to a girl drunk when she's sober.

Peace
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zekko

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Sounds like she wasn't impressed with your drinking, or at least you're getting overly drunk. Shows you can't control yourself.

Also, generally not a good idea to fall asleep on a girl at her house on a first date, unless you've had sex..
 

sbgm

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Haha, yep I know :p But shouldn't the text msg be enough? Why the facebook wall harassment?
 

vatoloco

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sbgm said:
So we talked and watched a movie, and made out. We watched a movie and I couldn't follow it, I was so drunk I didn't understand a bit of it - probably also fell asleep.
Are you sure that's all that happened? Maybe you tried to get a little too "touchy feely" with her but you don't remember... ;)

Also, was this an already established acquaintance/friend? Or did you "friend" her first on Facebook. I have an ironclad rule when it comes to Facebook and Plates: Never friend your plates on Facebook.
 

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