"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sbgm

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Just want to get this out.

Got invited to a girl last saturday night. I was a bit drunk (35-40cl vodka I usually drink about 20cl to get tipsy) and this girl was sober. So we talked and watched a movie, and made out. We watched a movie and I couldn't follow it, I was so drunk I didn't understand a bit of it - probably also fell asleep.

Well, everything is fine, I leave at 8 in the morning because I was feeling so hungover, and the day after i texted her if she wanted to grab some coffee.

She texts me back "I'm not interesting in seeing you anymore".

Now two days after, she's writing this texts on her facebook wall with her friend telling her in marvelous details how awful I was and that she will never make out again.

WTF IS WRONG WITH THIS SH!T??

Guess I've learned something, there's a reason for not kissing on the first - or second date and never go home to a girl drunk when she's sober.

Peace
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zekko

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Sounds like she wasn't impressed with your drinking, or at least you're getting overly drunk. Shows you can't control yourself.

Also, generally not a good idea to fall asleep on a girl at her house on a first date, unless you've had sex..
 

sbgm

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Haha, yep I know :p But shouldn't the text msg be enough? Why the facebook wall harassment?
 

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sbgm said:
So we talked and watched a movie, and made out. We watched a movie and I couldn't follow it, I was so drunk I didn't understand a bit of it - probably also fell asleep.
Are you sure that's all that happened? Maybe you tried to get a little too "touchy feely" with her but you don't remember... ;)

Also, was this an already established acquaintance/friend? Or did you "friend" her first on Facebook. I have an ironclad rule when it comes to Facebook and Plates: Never friend your plates on Facebook.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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