"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chromeo

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I wanted to discuss a crazy idea/scenario.

I was thinking about jealousy issues guys have with ex-girlfriends or oneiti and them sleeping with other guys.

typically, I think, most guys get rid of this by completely steering clear of the situation, exing these women out of there lives. But I wanted to ask if anyway has ever watched one of these women in your life have sex with someone else?

I was wondering why this sexual jealousy is such a HUGE stigma?

In steve jobs biography there's an excerpt where he discusses the time he walked in on his roomate having sex with his girlfriend and his roomate invited him to watch. He said this had a profound effect on him (doesnt really say whether the effect was pos or neg)

Has anyone had this happen? Do you think this would help you get over an ex or shed a new light on sexuality for you that might relieve some issues of sexual jealousy?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chromeo said:
I wanted to discuss a crazy idea/scenario.

I was thinking about jealousy issues guys have with ex-girlfriends or oneiti and them sleeping with other guys.

typically, I think, most guys get rid of this by completely steering clear of the situation, exing these women out of there lives. But I wanted to ask if anyway has ever watched one of these women in your life have sex with someone else?

I was wondering why this sexual jealousy is such a HUGE stigma?

In steve jobs biography there's an excerpt where he discusses the time he walked in on his roomate having sex with his girlfriend and his roomate invited him to watch. He said this had a profound effect on him (doesnt really say whether the effect was pos or neg)

Has anyone had this happen? Do you think this would help you get over an ex or shed a new light on sexuality for you that might relieve some issues of sexual jealousy?

Sounds like a plan.

I'll be sure to call up my ex to invite me over to watch her have sex with a new guy while I sit in a crib wetting my pampers, sucking my thumb and playing with my 'wittle' baby d1ck while she verbally shames me in front of a real man.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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