"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chromeo

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I wanted to discuss a crazy idea/scenario.

I was thinking about jealousy issues guys have with ex-girlfriends or oneiti and them sleeping with other guys.

typically, I think, most guys get rid of this by completely steering clear of the situation, exing these women out of there lives. But I wanted to ask if anyway has ever watched one of these women in your life have sex with someone else?

I was wondering why this sexual jealousy is such a HUGE stigma?

In steve jobs biography there's an excerpt where he discusses the time he walked in on his roomate having sex with his girlfriend and his roomate invited him to watch. He said this had a profound effect on him (doesnt really say whether the effect was pos or neg)

Has anyone had this happen? Do you think this would help you get over an ex or shed a new light on sexuality for you that might relieve some issues of sexual jealousy?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chromeo said:
I wanted to discuss a crazy idea/scenario.

I was thinking about jealousy issues guys have with ex-girlfriends or oneiti and them sleeping with other guys.

typically, I think, most guys get rid of this by completely steering clear of the situation, exing these women out of there lives. But I wanted to ask if anyway has ever watched one of these women in your life have sex with someone else?

I was wondering why this sexual jealousy is such a HUGE stigma?

In steve jobs biography there's an excerpt where he discusses the time he walked in on his roomate having sex with his girlfriend and his roomate invited him to watch. He said this had a profound effect on him (doesnt really say whether the effect was pos or neg)

Has anyone had this happen? Do you think this would help you get over an ex or shed a new light on sexuality for you that might relieve some issues of sexual jealousy?

Sounds like a plan.

I'll be sure to call up my ex to invite me over to watch her have sex with a new guy while I sit in a crib wetting my pampers, sucking my thumb and playing with my 'wittle' baby d1ck while she verbally shames me in front of a real man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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