"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chromeo

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I wanted to discuss a crazy idea/scenario.

I was thinking about jealousy issues guys have with ex-girlfriends or oneiti and them sleeping with other guys.

typically, I think, most guys get rid of this by completely steering clear of the situation, exing these women out of there lives. But I wanted to ask if anyway has ever watched one of these women in your life have sex with someone else?

I was wondering why this sexual jealousy is such a HUGE stigma?

In steve jobs biography there's an excerpt where he discusses the time he walked in on his roomate having sex with his girlfriend and his roomate invited him to watch. He said this had a profound effect on him (doesnt really say whether the effect was pos or neg)

Has anyone had this happen? Do you think this would help you get over an ex or shed a new light on sexuality for you that might relieve some issues of sexual jealousy?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chromeo said:
I wanted to discuss a crazy idea/scenario.

I was thinking about jealousy issues guys have with ex-girlfriends or oneiti and them sleeping with other guys.

typically, I think, most guys get rid of this by completely steering clear of the situation, exing these women out of there lives. But I wanted to ask if anyway has ever watched one of these women in your life have sex with someone else?

I was wondering why this sexual jealousy is such a HUGE stigma?

In steve jobs biography there's an excerpt where he discusses the time he walked in on his roomate having sex with his girlfriend and his roomate invited him to watch. He said this had a profound effect on him (doesnt really say whether the effect was pos or neg)

Has anyone had this happen? Do you think this would help you get over an ex or shed a new light on sexuality for you that might relieve some issues of sexual jealousy?

Sounds like a plan.

I'll be sure to call up my ex to invite me over to watch her have sex with a new guy while I sit in a crib wetting my pampers, sucking my thumb and playing with my 'wittle' baby d1ck while she verbally shames me in front of a real man.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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