"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chromeo

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I wanted to discuss a crazy idea/scenario.

I was thinking about jealousy issues guys have with ex-girlfriends or oneiti and them sleeping with other guys.

typically, I think, most guys get rid of this by completely steering clear of the situation, exing these women out of there lives. But I wanted to ask if anyway has ever watched one of these women in your life have sex with someone else?

I was wondering why this sexual jealousy is such a HUGE stigma?

In steve jobs biography there's an excerpt where he discusses the time he walked in on his roomate having sex with his girlfriend and his roomate invited him to watch. He said this had a profound effect on him (doesnt really say whether the effect was pos or neg)

Has anyone had this happen? Do you think this would help you get over an ex or shed a new light on sexuality for you that might relieve some issues of sexual jealousy?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chromeo said:
I wanted to discuss a crazy idea/scenario.

I was thinking about jealousy issues guys have with ex-girlfriends or oneiti and them sleeping with other guys.

typically, I think, most guys get rid of this by completely steering clear of the situation, exing these women out of there lives. But I wanted to ask if anyway has ever watched one of these women in your life have sex with someone else?

I was wondering why this sexual jealousy is such a HUGE stigma?

In steve jobs biography there's an excerpt where he discusses the time he walked in on his roomate having sex with his girlfriend and his roomate invited him to watch. He said this had a profound effect on him (doesnt really say whether the effect was pos or neg)

Has anyone had this happen? Do you think this would help you get over an ex or shed a new light on sexuality for you that might relieve some issues of sexual jealousy?

Sounds like a plan.

I'll be sure to call up my ex to invite me over to watch her have sex with a new guy while I sit in a crib wetting my pampers, sucking my thumb and playing with my 'wittle' baby d1ck while she verbally shames me in front of a real man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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