ok so I have been aound these fourms for awhile but I still don't know what it its that you "Djs" do? I see random tips by people who know nothing of which they speak. then I see some good posts but for the most part I don't know what it is you guys do. help me put with this pleas.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wat is "don juan" game
- Thread starter Blackgame
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
oo sounds philosophical
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Seriously when I first joined I really tried to figure that out to. But its basically just the group of people that post on the forums, there really isn't anything that stands out that you can actually seperate the style. (Like you know they have indirect, and certain direct, MM, juggler, gunwitch,etc)Blackgame said:
The DJ bible is just a group of good post that was considered good that was posted on the site and selected to be in the DJ bible. When I do think about DJ though I think of it as trying to be a "james bond" because most of the DJ bible is a bunch of mindset stuff and then no techniques. This is why alot of people call it a numbers game.
Thats my view on it though, because when you actually think about it only like 20% of the people actually start to actually get girls, because they were open minded to actually learning a technique. (most usually want to stick closer to being a james bond type of dude so they usually choose juggler method or gunwitch, and even direct.)