ok so I have been aound these fourms for awhile but I still don't know what it its that you "Djs" do? I see random tips by people who know nothing of which they speak. then I see some good posts but for the most part I don't know what it is you guys do. help me put with this pleas.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wat is "don juan" game
- Thread starter Blackgame
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
oo sounds philosophical
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Seriously when I first joined I really tried to figure that out to. But its basically just the group of people that post on the forums, there really isn't anything that stands out that you can actually seperate the style. (Like you know they have indirect, and certain direct, MM, juggler, gunwitch,etc)Blackgame said:
The DJ bible is just a group of good post that was considered good that was posted on the site and selected to be in the DJ bible. When I do think about DJ though I think of it as trying to be a "james bond" because most of the DJ bible is a bunch of mindset stuff and then no techniques. This is why alot of people call it a numbers game.
Thats my view on it though, because when you actually think about it only like 20% of the people actually start to actually get girls, because they were open minded to actually learning a technique. (most usually want to stick closer to being a james bond type of dude so they usually choose juggler method or gunwitch, and even direct.)