ok so I have been aound these fourms for awhile but I still don't know what it its that you "Djs" do? I see random tips by people who know nothing of which they speak. then I see some good posts but for the most part I don't know what it is you guys do. help me put with this pleas.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wat is "don juan" game
- Thread starter Blackgame
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
oo sounds philosophical
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Seriously when I first joined I really tried to figure that out to. But its basically just the group of people that post on the forums, there really isn't anything that stands out that you can actually seperate the style. (Like you know they have indirect, and certain direct, MM, juggler, gunwitch,etc)Blackgame said:
The DJ bible is just a group of good post that was considered good that was posted on the site and selected to be in the DJ bible. When I do think about DJ though I think of it as trying to be a "james bond" because most of the DJ bible is a bunch of mindset stuff and then no techniques. This is why alot of people call it a numbers game.
Thats my view on it though, because when you actually think about it only like 20% of the people actually start to actually get girls, because they were open minded to actually learning a technique. (most usually want to stick closer to being a james bond type of dude so they usually choose juggler method or gunwitch, and even direct.)