"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Blackgame

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ok so I have been aound these fourms for awhile but I still don't know what it its that you "Djs" do? I see random tips by people who know nothing of which they speak. then I see some good posts but for the most part I don't know what it is you guys do. help me put with this pleas.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KillaCam

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Read the DJ Bible buddy.

Link down the bottom of the page :up:
 

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It's a mixture of things. Learning how to talk to women for starters.

But it's much more than that. Gaining self confidence, and changing your life for the better. Boys to Men. :woo:
 

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oo sounds philosophical
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eccentric

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Blackgame said:
lol I have read the dj book many times

like I said what is that you guys do? how do you guys approach "turning boys in to men"
It's a journey.
 

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Blackgame said:
ok so I have been aound these fourms for awhile but I still don't know what it its that you "Djs" do? I see random tips by people who know nothing of which they speak. then I see some good posts but for the most part I don't know what it is you guys do. help me put with this pleas.
Seriously when I first joined I really tried to figure that out to. But its basically just the group of people that post on the forums, there really isn't anything that stands out that you can actually seperate the style. (Like you know they have indirect, and certain direct, MM, juggler, gunwitch,etc)

The DJ bible is just a group of good post that was considered good that was posted on the site and selected to be in the DJ bible. When I do think about DJ though I think of it as trying to be a "james bond" because most of the DJ bible is a bunch of mindset stuff and then no techniques. This is why alot of people call it a numbers game.

Thats my view on it though, because when you actually think about it only like 20% of the people actually start to actually get girls, because they were open minded to actually learning a technique. (most usually want to stick closer to being a james bond type of dude so they usually choose juggler method or gunwitch, and even direct.)
 
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