"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
wat do you say when a girl ask you
- Thread starter intel123
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SickAgain
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Are you saying that you can't honestly answer this question?intel123 said:what do you do for fun ?
is there any trick to this question not to make u seem like a looser whats some good answers to keep her wanting more. im not sure wat to say herejust the usualy partying go out thing ?> thanks guys
amoka
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"I like rock climbing, going to the movies (with my friends)", etc, I say "No way, I just got back from Corolado climbing moutains this past weekend. It was awsome. Maybe we should get together sometime and do some serious mountain climbing" or when they response with watch movies, I go.." Really, what was the last movie you saw with your friend AT THE THEATRE?, don't tell me Men In Black".
All that I'm saying is to don't sweat it when asked that question. Personally I won't tell any woman I don't do anything for fun! Make up something, even if you don't have anything. They do it all the time. If you have enough confidence, you can respond " I am booked for Fridays. If it is the dinner that you're trying to take me to, we can do it any other time except on fridays...."
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
IceCream
Don Juan
IceCream said:
hahaha
You should see the original poster's picture. Guy looks like a player, put him next to Mystery's crew and he'll fit right in.. I have no idea why he's having problems with women..
I think he should stay away from the advice about telling her you like fvcking a goat.. He is arab or jewish and in his culture goats are secret or something like that.. I mean, it might come across like he means it..
Two points:
B) Meet them and practice, that way you can develop
Also come up with a plan for improving and execute it step by step.