"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
wat do you say when a girl ask you
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SickAgain
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Are you saying that you can't honestly answer this question?intel123 said:what do you do for fun ?
is there any trick to this question not to make u seem like a looser whats some good answers to keep her wanting more. im not sure wat to say herejust the usualy partying go out thing ?> thanks guys
amoka
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"I like rock climbing, going to the movies (with my friends)", etc, I say "No way, I just got back from Corolado climbing moutains this past weekend. It was awsome. Maybe we should get together sometime and do some serious mountain climbing" or when they response with watch movies, I go.." Really, what was the last movie you saw with your friend AT THE THEATRE?, don't tell me Men In Black".
All that I'm saying is to don't sweat it when asked that question. Personally I won't tell any woman I don't do anything for fun! Make up something, even if you don't have anything. They do it all the time. If you have enough confidence, you can respond " I am booked for Fridays. If it is the dinner that you're trying to take me to, we can do it any other time except on fridays...."
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
IceCream
Don Juan
IceCream said:
hahaha
You should see the original poster's picture. Guy looks like a player, put him next to Mystery's crew and he'll fit right in.. I have no idea why he's having problems with women..
I think he should stay away from the advice about telling her you like fvcking a goat.. He is arab or jewish and in his culture goats are secret or something like that.. I mean, it might come across like he means it..
Two points:
B) Meet them and practice, that way you can develop
Also come up with a plan for improving and execute it step by step.