"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
wat do you say when a girl ask you
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SickAgain
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Francisco d'Anconia
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Are you saying that you can't honestly answer this question?intel123 said:what do you do for fun ?
is there any trick to this question not to make u seem like a looser whats some good answers to keep her wanting more. im not sure wat to say herejust the usualy partying go out thing ?> thanks guys
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"I like rock climbing, going to the movies (with my friends)", etc, I say "No way, I just got back from Corolado climbing moutains this past weekend. It was awsome. Maybe we should get together sometime and do some serious mountain climbing" or when they response with watch movies, I go.." Really, what was the last movie you saw with your friend AT THE THEATRE?, don't tell me Men In Black".
All that I'm saying is to don't sweat it when asked that question. Personally I won't tell any woman I don't do anything for fun! Make up something, even if you don't have anything. They do it all the time. If you have enough confidence, you can respond " I am booked for Fridays. If it is the dinner that you're trying to take me to, we can do it any other time except on fridays...."
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
IceCream
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IceCream said:
hahaha
You should see the original poster's picture. Guy looks like a player, put him next to Mystery's crew and he'll fit right in.. I have no idea why he's having problems with women..
I think he should stay away from the advice about telling her you like fvcking a goat.. He is arab or jewish and in his culture goats are secret or something like that.. I mean, it might come across like he means it..
Two points:
B) Meet them and practice, that way you can develop
Also come up with a plan for improving and execute it step by step.