“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wasting time

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Is it a good idea to ask a woman if you're just wasting you're time with them?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Life's short quit wasting your time. I think that answers your question no?
 

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cognac said:
Is it a good idea to ask a woman if you're just wasting you're time with them?

You shouldn't have to ask you should KNOW.

This is a question the women ask. My last girl told me she is "Wasting her time" because I wouldn't let the leech move in and live off my back.
 

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If you are fvcking her (and assuming she is reasonably attractive) how is it that you are wasting your time?
 

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If you feel the need to ask that question, the answer is always yes.

Never ask a woman this; all you are doing is confirming for her that she controls the frame and you need to qualify yourself to her. If this is even entering into your head you've already lost the frame.
 

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cognac said:
Is it a good idea to ask a woman if you're just wasting you're time with them?
Never ask a woman anything about relationships ... you'll just screw it up :)

Trust me, they will move things along (ie "talk") if they want to advance the relationship - this one is obvious.

But they will start acting odd (less talk, mismatched actions) if they're wanting to eject. Most guys misread this, try to apply logic (ie talk, negotiate, etc) trying to solve it. The truly aware guy reads this signal and pulls away w/o asking any questions - simpler and easier for both parties in the end. Not many guys do this though.
 

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Ok. Well she asked me what i want from her. And said she's not sure what I expect. lol. How do I answer that without seeming like a wussy? I mean should I just tell her what i want and what i expect?
 
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Sinistar said:
Trust me, they will move things along (ie "talk") if they want to advance the relationship - this one is obvious.
Truth.


A man puts his bid in and the women will accept or reject. You will know quickly by her words AND actions.

No need to ask.

As a man, you must make your intentions clear after a short time of building comfort. Then you will get your answer shorty thereafter.
 

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I told her: You're beautiful on the inside and out. And has the personality to go with it. So in essence I want the package deal. And that's what I want.

Was that a bit overboard? I was being honest when I said it. I'm just so damn attracted to her. Mind you I'm dating some other women but nothing serious.
 

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Sinistar said:
Never ask a woman anything about relationships ... you'll just screw it up :)

Trust me, they will move things along (ie "talk") if they want to advance the relationship - this one is obvious.

But they will start acting odd (less talk, mismatched actions) if they're wanting to eject. Most guys misread this, try to apply logic (ie talk, negotiate, etc) trying to solve it. The truly aware guy reads this signal and pulls away w/o asking any questions - simpler and easier for both parties in the end. Not many guys do this though.
Yep, a woman who wants to increase the intensity and forward velocity will send you unmistakeable signals.
However, when a woman's interest in you has tanked, or is spiralling downwards, she will send "distancing " signals in covert ways. Women often reject a guy in instalments. The first instalment is often," I have been soooo busy".

Take the hint and learn to translate "womanspeek".

BTW, read the last part of my signature.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She's not creating distance between us. She does have a lot of crap going on though. But she keeps in contact normally. Like I said earlier she asked me what I want and what I expect. I told her what I previously stated. Was it a good move telling her that?
 
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