"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Wasting time
- Thread starter cognac
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Never ask a woman this; all you are doing is confirming for her that she controls the frame and you need to qualify yourself to her. If this is even entering into your head you've already lost the frame.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Never ask a woman anything about relationships ... you'll just screw it upcognac said:
Trust me, they will move things along (ie "talk") if they want to advance the relationship - this one is obvious.
But they will start acting odd (less talk, mismatched actions) if they're wanting to eject. Most guys misread this, try to apply logic (ie talk, negotiate, etc) trying to solve it. The truly aware guy reads this signal and pulls away w/o asking any questions - simpler and easier for both parties in the end. Not many guys do this though.
Truth.Sinistar said:
A man puts his bid in and the women will accept or reject. You will know quickly by her words AND actions.
No need to ask.
As a man, you must make your intentions clear after a short time of building comfort. Then you will get your answer shorty thereafter.
Was that a bit overboard? I was being honest when I said it. I'm just so damn attracted to her. Mind you I'm dating some other women but nothing serious.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Yep, a woman who wants to increase the intensity and forward velocity will send you unmistakeable signals.Sinistar said:Never ask a woman anything about relationships ... you'll just screw it up
Trust me, they will move things along (ie "talk") if they want to advance the relationship - this one is obvious.
But they will start acting odd (less talk, mismatched actions) if they're wanting to eject. Most guys misread this, try to apply logic (ie talk, negotiate, etc) trying to solve it. The truly aware guy reads this signal and pulls away w/o asking any questions - simpler and easier for both parties in the end. Not many guys do this though.
However, when a woman's interest in you has tanked, or is spiralling downwards, she will send "distancing " signals in covert ways. Women often reject a guy in instalments. The first instalment is often," I have been soooo busy".
Take the hint and learn to translate "womanspeek".
BTW, read the last part of my signature.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.