Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
cognac said:Is it a good idea to ask a woman if you're just wasting you're time with them?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Never ask a woman anything about relationships ... you'll just screw it upcognac said:Is it a good idea to ask a woman if you're just wasting you're time with them?
Truth.Sinistar said:Trust me, they will move things along (ie "talk") if they want to advance the relationship - this one is obvious.
Yep, a woman who wants to increase the intensity and forward velocity will send you unmistakeable signals.Sinistar said:Never ask a woman anything about relationships ... you'll just screw it up![]()
Trust me, they will move things along (ie "talk") if they want to advance the relationship - this one is obvious.
But they will start acting odd (less talk, mismatched actions) if they're wanting to eject. Most guys misread this, try to apply logic (ie talk, negotiate, etc) trying to solve it. The truly aware guy reads this signal and pulls away w/o asking any questions - simpler and easier for both parties in the end. Not many guys do this though.