"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Was she just bored or what?

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Went out with a girl a few weeks ago....lots of kino, and she was reacting well, but I think she MAY have already LJBF me before that....I wish I had kissed her during the date, because at the end, it was just impossible because of logistics. Trust me on that. I was kinda upset because while dropping her off at her place (she doesn't drive....dammit), my friend called me and asked how it went...and asked if I went in for the kiss...and I think she might have heard. Not sure. But she got pretty quiet for about 5 min...but then after that seemed back to normal.

So, she sent me a text the next day...we went back and forth a couple times, but then she never replied. Ok, fine. A week later I sent a text (I was at her old job, just wanted to tell her that).

So...no contact until this afternoon. She asked me what I'm up to tonight, and I said I wouldn't know for a few hours, and asked why she was asking (this is through text). She said she wanted to do something that night, and wasn't sure what...I told her "well I should be able to make some time Sunday night, give me a call if you want some excitement ;) " She said "whatever. I'm going out with the girls." I told her have fun, she said she would, and I left it at that. I don't plan on calling her anytime soon...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would you advise calling her in a couple of weeks if she doesn't contact me? Or should I just leave it at that and move on (I'm leaving the state in a month anyway...although I'll be back often).
 
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Hmmm....well today she texts me with "the movie starts at 6:55 tomorrow." I say "wow that's an aggressive way to start a conversation ;) "

And she says "lol, will I see you there?" I tell her I'll let her know tomorrow. But she wants me to invite others. I won't.
 
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Well done because you have her thinknig. Before she thought she was in control and know you are. If you did go out with her make she you do not contact he for a few days after the ngith. Let her do all of the work.
 
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