"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Was she just bored or what?

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Went out with a girl a few weeks ago....lots of kino, and she was reacting well, but I think she MAY have already LJBF me before that....I wish I had kissed her during the date, because at the end, it was just impossible because of logistics. Trust me on that. I was kinda upset because while dropping her off at her place (she doesn't drive....dammit), my friend called me and asked how it went...and asked if I went in for the kiss...and I think she might have heard. Not sure. But she got pretty quiet for about 5 min...but then after that seemed back to normal.

So, she sent me a text the next day...we went back and forth a couple times, but then she never replied. Ok, fine. A week later I sent a text (I was at her old job, just wanted to tell her that).

So...no contact until this afternoon. She asked me what I'm up to tonight, and I said I wouldn't know for a few hours, and asked why she was asking (this is through text). She said she wanted to do something that night, and wasn't sure what...I told her "well I should be able to make some time Sunday night, give me a call if you want some excitement ;) " She said "whatever. I'm going out with the girls." I told her have fun, she said she would, and I left it at that. I don't plan on calling her anytime soon...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Would you advise calling her in a couple of weeks if she doesn't contact me? Or should I just leave it at that and move on (I'm leaving the state in a month anyway...although I'll be back often).
 
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Hmmm....well today she texts me with "the movie starts at 6:55 tomorrow." I say "wow that's an aggressive way to start a conversation ;) "

And she says "lol, will I see you there?" I tell her I'll let her know tomorrow. But she wants me to invite others. I won't.
 
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Well done because you have her thinknig. Before she thought she was in control and know you are. If you did go out with her make she you do not contact he for a few days after the ngith. Let her do all of the work.
 
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