Was she just bored or what?

[ARrocket]

Went out with a girl a few weeks ago....lots of kino, and she was reacting well, but I think she MAY have already LJBF me before that....I wish I had kissed her during the date, because at the end, it was just impossible because of logistics. Trust me on that. I was kinda upset because while dropping her off at her place (she doesn't drive....dammit), my friend called me and asked how it went...and asked if I went in for the kiss...and I think she might have heard. Not sure. But she got pretty quiet for about 5 min...but then after that seemed back to normal.

So, she sent me a text the next day...we went back and forth a couple times, but then she never replied. Ok, fine. A week later I sent a text (I was at her old job, just wanted to tell her that).

So...no contact until this afternoon. She asked me what I'm up to tonight, and I said I wouldn't know for a few hours, and asked why she was asking (this is through text). She said she wanted to do something that night, and wasn't sure what...I told her "well I should be able to make some time Sunday night, give me a call if you want some excitement " She said "whatever. I'm going out with the girls." I told her have fun, she said she would, and I left it at that. I don't plan on calling her anytime soon...

 

[ARrocket]

Would you advise calling her in a couple of weeks if she doesn't contact me? Or should I just leave it at that and move on (I'm leaving the state in a month anyway...although I'll be back often).

 

[ARrocket]

Hmmm....well today she texts me with "the movie starts at 6:55 tomorrow." I say "wow that's an aggressive way to start a conversation "

And she says "lol, will I see you there?" I tell her I'll let her know tomorrow. But she wants me to invite others. I won't.

 

[rdf63]

Well done because you have her thinknig. Before she thought she was in control and know you are. If you did go out with her make she you do not contact he for a few days after the ngith. Let her do all of the work.