Was I too forward with this text?

[RickTheToad]

You just ease off the sexual talk via text for awhile. Be sexual in person. Don’t tell her you’re about to go downtown on her, just so it when you finally get her naked.

Don't tell her, just head to that area. She knows what you're about to do. However, I'd worry about STDs prior to putting your lips and tongue there.

 

[99Z0RN]

Ok, I won’t bring it up I won’t apologize and I’ll text her something completely platonic tomorrow. How do you guys feel about emojis? I’m thinking I should lay off using them so much I’m afraid they make me look like a *****

 

[99Z0RN]

She's a tease. ASR. Keep pushing, but when she says no, backup. You can always try again a few minutes later. As you're kissing, your hands should be caressing her body. Don't go directly to her boobs, pus or ass, but arms, thighs, midsection, and then explore.

What does ASR mean? Yeah, she totally is a tease. Usually if I’m able to get a girl to come over I’ll at least get a bj out of it

 

[Robert28]

Ok, I won’t bring it up I won’t apologize and I’ll text her something completely platonic tomorrow. How do you guys feel about emojis? I’m thinking I should lay off using them so much I’m afraid they make me look like a *****

She’s young so using them is ok. Girls her age are used to them.

 

[RickTheToad]

What does ASR mean? Yeah, she totally is a tease. Usually if I’m able to get a girl to come over I’ll at least get a bj out of it

Anti-slut response. You're pretty close.

 

[99Z0RN]

Anti-slut response. You're pretty close.

Gotcha. Well I’ll update you on how it goes. I saw on Snap she went to painting thing tonight, so maybe I’ll ask her about it tomorrow to change the subject

 

[RickTheToad]

Gotcha. Well I’ll update you on how it goes. I saw on Snap she went to painting thing tonight, so maybe I’ll ask her about it tomorrow to change the subject

Try to connect on something emotional. Ladies are ruled by their emotions. If you can tap in to one, such as an experience and expand on that, you'll be aces.

 

[99Z0RN]

Try to connect on something emotional. Ladies are ruled by their emotions. If you can tap in to one, such as an experience and expand on that, you'll be aces.

You definitely know what your talking about! I’ll try to think of something, but I’m not sure right now what I could bring up that’d be ‘emotional’

 

[17 shots]

It wasn't that you did anything wrong, you just did it in a lame way. If you had worded that differently, and took away the goofy smilies, it would of came off more masculine, but you're still good

 

[99Z0RN]

It wasn't that you did anything wrong, you just did it in a lame way. If you had worded that differently, and took away the goofy smilies, it would of came off more masculine, but you're still good

Live and learn

 

[17 shots]

Live and learn

Looking at it again, what you said was ok. Just take out the laughing smilie when you talk sexual like that, because you want them to know that it's not a game lol

 

[99Z0RN]

Looking at it again, what you said was ok. Just take out the laughing smilie when you talk sexual like that, because you want them to know that it's not a game lol

I’m going to tone down the emojis in the future for sure. I might just wait and see if she texts me again or until I get a day off work and ask her out. I’ve been texting her way too much I think. Basically everyday for the last little while

 

[RickTheToad]

Looking at it again, what you said was ok. Just take out the laughing smilie when you talk sexual like that, because you want them to know that it's not a game lol

Could had gotten away with a ;') though.

 

[17 shots]

Could had gotten away with a ;') though.

Yea I really just meant the crying laughing one. I think a smile or wink with it is fine

 

[Glassguy]

Your last comment was a touch too direct. I would have said something like "You have no idea what this mouth is capable of" and see if SHE leads it into a sexual convo after the kissing statement.

Never apologize. EVER.

One rule about getting sexual in text- NO EMOJIS. Ever. You want that type of talk to be manly from your position. Dont water it down with smiley faces.

Emojis take sexual talk from sexual and exciting to corny in a woman's eyes.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I agree no apology. Minimal use of emojis!

If she was taken aback (it's impossible to tell at this point), a cure for that is to find a way to express that you like something about her that is non-sexual. Whatever it might be... painting skill if you've seen her work, or maybe something about her character. This reassures her that you're not just trying to get into her pants.

 

[EyeBRollin]

This is horrible.

Stop texting. You sound lame as ****. Game women in person.

 

[99Z0RN]

Looks like I may be back on track

 

[Trump]

I instantly regretted sending that last text, not sure if it made her uncomfortable or not. I’ve been out with her a few times and we made out once. Any advice?

Compared to what this site advertises, heavy makeout date 1, sex by 2nd date. You were not too direct.

Push it further if you can.

 

[GrowingPains]

She wasn't put off by your comment, so that's a W for you. But it won't always turn out this way.

I've also had some recent experiences with being worried have having been too direct. It doesn't make you feel good. That's why you posted here because it caused you some concern. And personally I need my mind to be worried about other things so I'm choosing to not be direct. Because I should:

Stop texting. You sound lame as ****. Game women in person.

I would say if you're going to take it further, do it in person. At least you got a chance to shoot your shot then.

All in all, just say things you're comfortable with saying. That way you eliminate the worry.