Mistic
Senior Don Juan
Instead of a 10 post rule there should be a 10 stupid threads rule. Capo is out.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Unfortunately it's not.Mistic said:Is that your little sister. Id fvck the sh!t out of her, and all her friends. Hook a playa up.
:nono:Capodeciña said:Unfortunately it's not. My sister isn't that hot, but you can still fvck her.
But if you post YOUR pic up , hopefully I can get a few boners. I will be excited to sought after you based off you're photos Gary Glitter.
I'm a premature pvssy, and I always target guys who suffer with PE. I wanna feel you bro.
In you're next comment, make sure you have a valid photo, location, facebook or profile of some sort, some form of proper contact to get your hook.:flowers:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The chick in the first pic looks diff from the rest, but (if this is the chick that u were talkin bout in ur original post) I can DEFINITELY see how you got her confused with a 22 year old.Capodeciña said:Not replying to the SoSuave Keyboard Jocks & Muscleheads. You can spit feathers as much as you want, because honestly I have no fvcking clue what you're wasting letters on a screen about. Obviously, Mistic or the same person - Rescue Mission do not have sibling sisters or siblings for that matter, for you to say you will smile and shake hands w/ a 30 year old loser who is dating you're 15 yr old sister. lol.
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If this is the girl from the story in the original post, I honestly expected her to be a lot hotter. Considering how much grief this guy gave another poster in the "looks don't matter" thread about some girl being "about a HB.5 or 6."Capodeciña said:http://i963.photobucket.com/albums/ae118/GNRGUNZNROSES/JES6.jpg
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OMG!! Is THIS her???? *FAP *FAP *FAP.Capodeciña said:Not replying to the SoSuave Keyboard Jocks & Muscleheads. You can spit feathers as much as you want, because honestly I have no fvcking clue what you're wasting letters on a screen about. Obviously, Mistic or the same person - Rescue Mission do not have sibling sisters or siblings for that matter, for you to say you will smile and shake hands w/ a 30 year old loser who is dating you're 15 yr old sister. lol.
http://i963.photobucket.com/albums/ae118/GNRGUNZNROSES/JES6.jpg
http://i963.photobucket.com/albums/ae118/GNRGUNZNROSES/JES2.jpg
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
eaglez1177 said:Lmao wtf is "fap" supposed to be?
Feel better? Sorry that you are stuck in America.Mistic said:Thanks for clearing it all up BigDumbo, I mean D!ckBimbo, or JizRambo was it . . .
Just send us a friend recommendation for this girl already. We'll take it from here.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.