So there is this girl I'm interested in. But she's not the usual skank...she seems pretty down to earth. I'm guessing she is getting a lot of emails, but I really want mine to stand out. She's 45 miles away from me, and says she wants someone within 10 miles, so I'm hoping that she won't worry about that too much. She really likes sports so maybe I can say, "hey want to go to a ____'s game?" Should I even talk about her kid?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Want to hit up a HB10 single mom on Match...need advice
- Thread starter skinnyguy
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
you're trolling right? Send her a cut-and-paste and forget about her until/unless she responds. Send that cut-and-paste to 19 more women today. Then send it to 20 women every day for the next week.
You're doing it wrong. If you're even serious.
You're doing it wrong. If you're even serious.
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BeDJ
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I love sports = I love my plethora of male attention. GO PATRISAINTS!
Peaks&Valleys
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Don't do this.skinnyguy said:
Or thisskinnyguy said:
Or thisZarky said:
This. Actually send her this. Best chance at a responseBeDJ said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Are you a male 10? Well, you gotta send out a message in order to get a chance at winning. Don't do anything beta.