So there is this girl I'm interested in. But she's not the usual skank...she seems pretty down to earth. I'm guessing she is getting a lot of emails, but I really want mine to stand out. She's 45 miles away from me, and says she wants someone within 10 miles, so I'm hoping that she won't worry about that too much. She really likes sports so maybe I can say, "hey want to go to a ____'s game?" Should I even talk about her kid?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Want to hit up a HB10 single mom on Match...need advice
- Thread starter skinnyguy
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
you're trolling right? Send her a cut-and-paste and forget about her until/unless she responds. Send that cut-and-paste to 19 more women today. Then send it to 20 women every day for the next week.
You're doing it wrong. If you're even serious.
You're doing it wrong. If you're even serious.
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BeDJ
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I love sports = I love my plethora of male attention. GO PATRISAINTS!
Peaks&Valleys
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Don't do this.skinnyguy said:
Or thisskinnyguy said:
Or thisZarky said:
This. Actually send her this. Best chance at a responseBeDJ said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Are you a male 10? Well, you gotta send out a message in order to get a chance at winning. Don't do anything beta.