So there is this girl I'm interested in. But she's not the usual skank...she seems pretty down to earth. I'm guessing she is getting a lot of emails, but I really want mine to stand out. She's 45 miles away from me, and says she wants someone within 10 miles, so I'm hoping that she won't worry about that too much. She really likes sports so maybe I can say, "hey want to go to a ____'s game?" Should I even talk about her kid?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Want to hit up a HB10 single mom on Match...need advice
- Thread starter skinnyguy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
you're trolling right? Send her a cut-and-paste and forget about her until/unless she responds. Send that cut-and-paste to 19 more women today. Then send it to 20 women every day for the next week.
You're doing it wrong. If you're even serious.
You're doing it wrong. If you're even serious.
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BeDJ
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I love sports = I love my plethora of male attention. GO PATRISAINTS!
Peaks&Valleys
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Don't do this.skinnyguy said:
Or thisskinnyguy said:
Or thisZarky said:
This. Actually send her this. Best chance at a responseBeDJ said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Are you a male 10? Well, you gotta send out a message in order to get a chance at winning. Don't do anything beta.