Want to Do No Contact BUT...

[ProDJ26]

My daughter is also involved. I know there's a way to go about doing full blown no contact without seeing the mother and being there for my child. Just the thought of anther man being there with the person I helped make a baby with that I would be paying for through child support appals me. But hey you gotta do what you gotta do. I made this bed now I gotta lay in it.

Suggestions?

 

[Albatross953]

Be a rock for your daughter. Remember all f.ed up stuff we see on this forum, a lot of it is because these women didn't have proper dads. Tough it out, get over your ex for her. Improve your life. Draw boundaries to protect you and your kid, and hold your ex accountable. Living well really is the best revenge. Handle your business as they say here and don't worry about no contact. Be too busy for no contact.

 

[PeakIV]

Be a rock for your daughter. Remember all f.ed up stuff we see on this forum, a lot of it is because these women didn't have proper dads. Tough it out, get over your ex for her. Improve your life. Draw boundaries to protect you and your kid, and hold your ex accountable. Living well really is the best revenge. Handle your business as they say here and don't worry about no contact. Be too busy for no contact.


I did this for my daughter and 25 years later, succesfull, own house business etc.. her mum admitted to her that it was the biggest mistake she ever made leaving me, and guess what, "I dont care"

funny how life works out?....

 

[perseverance]

Stand by your daughter.

One thing I will say is threads like this justify my reason for never wanting to have children.