"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Want to Do No Contact BUT...

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My daughter is also involved. I know there's a way to go about doing full blown no contact without seeing the mother and being there for my child. Just the thought of anther man being there with the person I helped make a baby with that I would be paying for through child support appals me. But hey you gotta do what you gotta do. I made this bed now I gotta lay in it.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Be a rock for your daughter. Remember all f.ed up stuff we see on this forum, a lot of it is because these women didn't have proper dads. Tough it out, get over your ex for her. Improve your life. Draw boundaries to protect you and your kid, and hold your ex accountable. Living well really is the best revenge. Handle your business as they say here and don't worry about no contact. Be too busy for no contact.
 
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Be a rock for your daughter. Remember all f.ed up stuff we see on this forum, a lot of it is because these women didn't have proper dads. Tough it out, get over your ex for her. Improve your life. Draw boundaries to protect you and your kid, and hold your ex accountable. Living well really is the best revenge. Handle your business as they say here and don't worry about no contact. Be too busy for no contact.


I did this for my daughter and 25 years later, succesfull, own house business etc.. her mum admitted to her that it was the biggest mistake she ever made leaving me, and guess what, "I dont care"

funny how life works out?....
 
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Stand by your daughter.

One thing I will say is threads like this justify my reason for never wanting to have children.
 
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