Johnnyventana
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Want sex on the first date?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
In the event that you meet a girl where there is mutual physical attraction, you should have sex with her as soon as humanly possible (Louis/Copeland). This is because of the most important difference between men and women:
* When a woman meets a man she starts thinking of all the reasons she does NOT want to have sex with him.
* When a man meets a woman he starts thinking of all the reasons he DOES want to have sex with her.
But then, if they have sex, afterward:
* A woman starts thinking of all the reasons she DOES want to see him again (to justify what she did).
* A man starts thinking about all the reasons he does NOT want to see her again.
When we try to find fault we usually do, so stay on the right side of the equation.
* When a woman meets a man she starts thinking of all the reasons she does NOT want to have sex with him.
* When a man meets a woman he starts thinking of all the reasons he DOES want to have sex with her.
But then, if they have sex, afterward:
* A woman starts thinking of all the reasons she DOES want to see him again (to justify what she did).
* A man starts thinking about all the reasons he does NOT want to see her again.
When we try to find fault we usually do, so stay on the right side of the equation.
ilikecharlene
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Is this the 1950s? lol.. I think it's just personal preference, and not bad if one has sex on the first date.