Johnnyventana
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Want sex on the first date?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
In the event that you meet a girl where there is mutual physical attraction, you should have sex with her as soon as humanly possible (Louis/Copeland). This is because of the most important difference between men and women:
* When a woman meets a man she starts thinking of all the reasons she does NOT want to have sex with him.
* When a man meets a woman he starts thinking of all the reasons he DOES want to have sex with her.
But then, if they have sex, afterward:
* A woman starts thinking of all the reasons she DOES want to see him again (to justify what she did).
* A man starts thinking about all the reasons he does NOT want to see her again.
When we try to find fault we usually do, so stay on the right side of the equation.
* When a woman meets a man she starts thinking of all the reasons she does NOT want to have sex with him.
* When a man meets a woman he starts thinking of all the reasons he DOES want to have sex with her.
But then, if they have sex, afterward:
* A woman starts thinking of all the reasons she DOES want to see him again (to justify what she did).
* A man starts thinking about all the reasons he does NOT want to see her again.
When we try to find fault we usually do, so stay on the right side of the equation.
ilikecharlene
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Is this the 1950s? lol.. I think it's just personal preference, and not bad if one has sex on the first date.