Johnnyventana
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Want sex on the first date?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
In the event that you meet a girl where there is mutual physical attraction, you should have sex with her as soon as humanly possible (Louis/Copeland). This is because of the most important difference between men and women:
* When a woman meets a man she starts thinking of all the reasons she does NOT want to have sex with him.
* When a man meets a woman he starts thinking of all the reasons he DOES want to have sex with her.
But then, if they have sex, afterward:
* A woman starts thinking of all the reasons she DOES want to see him again (to justify what she did).
* A man starts thinking about all the reasons he does NOT want to see her again.
When we try to find fault we usually do, so stay on the right side of the equation.
* When a woman meets a man she starts thinking of all the reasons she does NOT want to have sex with him.
* When a man meets a woman he starts thinking of all the reasons he DOES want to have sex with her.
But then, if they have sex, afterward:
* A woman starts thinking of all the reasons she DOES want to see him again (to justify what she did).
* A man starts thinking about all the reasons he does NOT want to see her again.
When we try to find fault we usually do, so stay on the right side of the equation.
ilikecharlene
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Is this the 1950s? lol.. I think it's just personal preference, and not bad if one has sex on the first date.