Johnnyventana
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Want sex on the first date?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
In the event that you meet a girl where there is mutual physical attraction, you should have sex with her as soon as humanly possible (Louis/Copeland). This is because of the most important difference between men and women:
* When a woman meets a man she starts thinking of all the reasons she does NOT want to have sex with him.
* When a man meets a woman he starts thinking of all the reasons he DOES want to have sex with her.
But then, if they have sex, afterward:
* A woman starts thinking of all the reasons she DOES want to see him again (to justify what she did).
* A man starts thinking about all the reasons he does NOT want to see her again.
When we try to find fault we usually do, so stay on the right side of the equation.
* When a woman meets a man she starts thinking of all the reasons she does NOT want to have sex with him.
* When a man meets a woman he starts thinking of all the reasons he DOES want to have sex with her.
But then, if they have sex, afterward:
* A woman starts thinking of all the reasons she DOES want to see him again (to justify what she did).
* A man starts thinking about all the reasons he does NOT want to see her again.
When we try to find fault we usually do, so stay on the right side of the equation.
ilikecharlene
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Is this the 1950s? lol.. I think it's just personal preference, and not bad if one has sex on the first date.