Johnnyventana
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Want sex on the first date?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
In the event that you meet a girl where there is mutual physical attraction, you should have sex with her as soon as humanly possible (Louis/Copeland). This is because of the most important difference between men and women:
* When a woman meets a man she starts thinking of all the reasons she does NOT want to have sex with him.
* When a man meets a woman he starts thinking of all the reasons he DOES want to have sex with her.
But then, if they have sex, afterward:
* A woman starts thinking of all the reasons she DOES want to see him again (to justify what she did).
* A man starts thinking about all the reasons he does NOT want to see her again.
When we try to find fault we usually do, so stay on the right side of the equation.
* When a woman meets a man she starts thinking of all the reasons she does NOT want to have sex with him.
* When a man meets a woman he starts thinking of all the reasons he DOES want to have sex with her.
But then, if they have sex, afterward:
* A woman starts thinking of all the reasons she DOES want to see him again (to justify what she did).
* A man starts thinking about all the reasons he does NOT want to see her again.
When we try to find fault we usually do, so stay on the right side of the equation.
ilikecharlene
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Is this the 1950s? lol.. I think it's just personal preference, and not bad if one has sex on the first date.