You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Originally posted by MindOverMatter
I do remember you photos and your thread (you made some nice gains). Motivating others is the main reason I leave my signature pics up. You and I have a similar mentality when it comes to seduction. My personal approach to seduction is very much different then other people's.
I don't run routines, I don't do neg-hits, I don't do canned C&F lines, I don't peacock, I don't wait a certain period of days to call, and I don't follow any rules that are set in stone. What I do tell people however, is to work out, build a body that gets girls wet, establish wide social circle, be a good guy, and just be yourself. My photos show that I practice what I teach, and that what I have done has worked for me, and will probably work for you.
On this board, I agree, but I've seen some questionable pics on other sites!Another point is, all of the guys who have posted these so far don't look like the types who need to pay for sex.
so the saying you are who your friends are is only partly true or whats your take on it?Originally posted by MindOverMatter
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What's the difference between these friends? My former frat bros are all very social naturals who have built their game through hard work and now get laid without any effort, while my best friend is a total AFC who hasn't been with a girl since his first girlfriend dumped him 2 years ago.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by lurker
I HAVE been a lurking for 4 years here and to me the only people with real game here are
pook
vassago
giovanni
playersupreme
sirchancelaot
adonis
mrfingers
Some of these guys showed prove of picture and some did not pook never showed any prove as far as i know and he is till respected* i may be wrong? it goes both ways me thinks posting a picture with a girl does not, i repeat does not make you a dj
he he he you all think im a newbies.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Know what's sad?Originally posted by DrBeard
Thes loosers need to get in da field and grab their bollocks like men then come her and post firld reports!!!!!!
That is ALL one really needs...... I've been a lil bitkh over the last few months. My game has grown very stale. Im so out of practice. I'm going to get all manic and go on a sarging bender. I need the vigor that I had when I first got here....What I do tell people however, is to work out, build a body that gets girls wet, establish wide social circle, be a good guy, and just be yourself.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.