Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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wait for her to call after a date

oranges

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OK, so I get the idea that your supposed to wait for her to call after a date, what if she doesn't?, does this mean she was low interest?

I'm so used to them calling me afterwards, and this one hasn't?

Basically I need to know whether to next her or not:rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jlr12584

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stop being a girl. ur the man, ur supposed to call her after the date. end of story
 

backbreaker

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let me get this straight...


you take a woman on a date

you probably spent... I don't know...2-3 hours with her

you drive her home

say goodnight

and THEN wait to call her to talk on the phone.... YOU WERE JUST WITH HER THE WHOLE FREAKIN NIGHT!

The ONLY and I mean the ONLY time I will call a woman after a date is if she drove home, and then I make sure she made it home okay and I'm off the bed.

What the fvck do we have to talk about.... if you are at home instead of my house obviously you didn't want to have sex, so that's strike 1.

I was with a girl late one Friday night about a year and a half ago.. she gets home from a date, as soon as the guy leaves comes over my house and then the guy calls and blabs her ear off for like 45 minutes.. we said the same thing... damn if he would have put this much thought in the actual date he might have gotten laid... instead I did.
 

jlr12584

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i assumed he meant the next day or following days. not like immediately after the date is finished.
 

KneghtRyder

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Yo oranges,

i am in the same dilemna currently.. I had a 1st one but i dont think i hit it off so well as i was ****n just tired from working all day. i was freakin fallin asleep

needless to say she didn't call but answer my phone calls. I think all I need to do is get some rest, call her back to set up a day when i a m feeling more energy and hit it out of the park then ! else its off to the races again ( aka sargin) and im ready for that anyday
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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