"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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wait for her to call after a date

oranges

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OK, so I get the idea that your supposed to wait for her to call after a date, what if she doesn't?, does this mean she was low interest?

I'm so used to them calling me afterwards, and this one hasn't?

Basically I need to know whether to next her or not:rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jlr12584

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stop being a girl. ur the man, ur supposed to call her after the date. end of story
 

backbreaker

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let me get this straight...


you take a woman on a date

you probably spent... I don't know...2-3 hours with her

you drive her home

say goodnight

and THEN wait to call her to talk on the phone.... YOU WERE JUST WITH HER THE WHOLE FREAKIN NIGHT!

The ONLY and I mean the ONLY time I will call a woman after a date is if she drove home, and then I make sure she made it home okay and I'm off the bed.

What the fvck do we have to talk about.... if you are at home instead of my house obviously you didn't want to have sex, so that's strike 1.

I was with a girl late one Friday night about a year and a half ago.. she gets home from a date, as soon as the guy leaves comes over my house and then the guy calls and blabs her ear off for like 45 minutes.. we said the same thing... damn if he would have put this much thought in the actual date he might have gotten laid... instead I did.
 

jlr12584

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i assumed he meant the next day or following days. not like immediately after the date is finished.
 

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Yo oranges,

i am in the same dilemna currently.. I had a 1st one but i dont think i hit it off so well as i was ****n just tired from working all day. i was freakin fallin asleep

needless to say she didn't call but answer my phone calls. I think all I need to do is get some rest, call her back to set up a day when i a m feeling more energy and hit it out of the park then ! else its off to the races again ( aka sargin) and im ready for that anyday
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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