"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wait for her to call after a date

oranges

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OK, so I get the idea that your supposed to wait for her to call after a date, what if she doesn't?, does this mean she was low interest?

I'm so used to them calling me afterwards, and this one hasn't?

Basically I need to know whether to next her or not:rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jlr12584

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stop being a girl. ur the man, ur supposed to call her after the date. end of story
 

backbreaker

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let me get this straight...


you take a woman on a date

you probably spent... I don't know...2-3 hours with her

you drive her home

say goodnight

and THEN wait to call her to talk on the phone.... YOU WERE JUST WITH HER THE WHOLE FREAKIN NIGHT!

The ONLY and I mean the ONLY time I will call a woman after a date is if she drove home, and then I make sure she made it home okay and I'm off the bed.

What the fvck do we have to talk about.... if you are at home instead of my house obviously you didn't want to have sex, so that's strike 1.

I was with a girl late one Friday night about a year and a half ago.. she gets home from a date, as soon as the guy leaves comes over my house and then the guy calls and blabs her ear off for like 45 minutes.. we said the same thing... damn if he would have put this much thought in the actual date he might have gotten laid... instead I did.
 

jlr12584

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i assumed he meant the next day or following days. not like immediately after the date is finished.
 

KneghtRyder

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Yo oranges,

i am in the same dilemna currently.. I had a 1st one but i dont think i hit it off so well as i was ****n just tired from working all day. i was freakin fallin asleep

needless to say she didn't call but answer my phone calls. I think all I need to do is get some rest, call her back to set up a day when i a m feeling more energy and hit it out of the park then ! else its off to the races again ( aka sargin) and im ready for that anyday
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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